Should You Hire a Virtual Assistant? A Real Estate Agent Decision Guide
Hiring a VA can change your business. It can also create stress, cash flow pressure, and management problems if you are not ready.
This guide will help you decide:
Am I financially ready?
Do I need a TC or a VA?
Can I manage someone?
Does the math work?
A virtual assistant (VA) is a full-time team member who handles repeatable, admin-heavy tasks so you can stay in your highest-value lane: appointments, consultations, and negotiations. If you hire the right person, with the right job description, you buy back time, consistency, and follow-through.
A VA is not a magic wand. It is a commitment. Most strong VAs want full-time work, they expect structure, clarity, and accountability, and they will only perform at a high level if you lead them well.
BEFORE YOU POST A JOB OR CONTRACT WITH A VA HIRING SERVICE, BE SURE YOU ARE MAKING A GOOD BUSINESS DECISION!
JACK WELCH TEACHES: "Hire slow, fire fast" ........put another way "Be slow to hire and quick to fire."
Before you look at resumes, answer these honestly.
Financial Readiness
Are you closing consistently every month?
Can you afford this cost for 3–6 months without depending on future closings?
Do you have stable cash flow, not just one big month?
If you cannot carry the cost without stress, you are not ready.
Operational Readiness
Do you know exactly what you would delegate?
Do you have repeatable tasks, not random emergencies?
Have you written down your processes?
If everything lives in your head, hiring will feel chaotic.
Time Reinvestment Readiness
If someone freed up 10–15 hours per week tomorrow, how would you use that time?
If the answer is not:
Lead generation
Follow up
Appointments
Negotiation
Then hiring will not grow your income.
Buying back time only works if you reinvest it into money-making activities.
If you answered “no” to multiple items above, stop here and fix those first.
Most agents confuse this.
If your stress is paperwork tied to a specific transaction → you need a Transaction Coordinator.
If your stress is daily admin chaos → you may need a VA.
Here is the difference in plain terms:
Transaction Coordinator (TC)
Paid per file at closing.
Handles contract-to-close tasks.
Manages deadlines, compliance, paperwork, file completion.
Cost scales with closings.
Virtual Assistant (VA)
Usually full-time.
Handles ongoing weekly tasks.
CRM updates, lead routing, marketing scheduling, inbox management, reporting.
Cost is fixed regardless of closings.
If 70% of what you need is contract-related, start with a TC. Do not put a salaried assistant on per-file work.
Hiring does not remove leadership responsibility. It increases it.
If you have never:
Written a clear job description
Trained someone step-by-step
Held weekly accountability meetings
Given corrective feedback
Measured performance with metrics
Then hiring a VA will expose that gap quickly.
You must commit to:
Daily 5–10 minute check-ins
Weekly 30-minute review meeting
Clear KPIs
Written SOPs
If you are not willing to lead/manage actively, do not hire yet.
Consider...communication and overlap
Possible time zone mismatches with you and your clients
Preferred communication channels (Slack, email, task manager)
Daily cadence, huddle, end-of-day recap
Consider...Tools and access
Company email, shared calendar permissions
CRM access levels
Password manager required
File organization and naming conventions
Consider...Quality control
One source of truth (SOPs, templates, checklists)
A “definition of done” for recurring tasks
A weekly scorecard (completed tasks, response time, appointments confirmed, CRM cleanup)
Consider...Security and compliance
Confidentiality agreement
No sharing client data outside approved systems
Clear boundaries around license-required tasks
Does the ROI Make Sense?
Treat this as an investment, not an emotional decision.
If a VA costs $2,000 per month, that is $24,000 per year.
If your average commission per closing is $10,000, you need 2.4 additional closings per year to break even.
That is one additional closing every five months.
Now ask:
Can this assistant realistically help me produce at least three more closings per year?
If the answer is no, do not hire.
If the answer is yes and you have a plan to use the freed time productively, the math works.
Most international VAs:
• Are paid weekly
• Invoice you
• Are paid via Wise, wire transfer, or similar services
They are typically independent contractors, not W2 employees.
You are responsible for:
• Proper classification
• Tracking payments
• Consulting your CPA on tax reporting
• Issuing 1099s for U.S.-based contractors when applicable
• Understanding that you do not withhold taxes for most overseas contractors
You must also clarify before hiring:
• Hourly or fixed monthly pay
• Expected weekly hours
• Paid time off
• Local holidays
• Overtime rules
• Equipment and internet reliability
• Backup plans for outages
Do not “figure this out later.” Structure it before Day One.
“Hiring a VA” is not one job description.
There are different skill sets. Different strengths. Different pay ranges. Different expectations.
If you hire the wrong type for your actual need, you will feel like hiring was a mistake.
This is where most agents go wrong. They hire a generalist and expect specialist output. If the role is not defined correctly, performance will always disappoint.
Before you post a job or engage a VA hiring service, decide what kind of operator you need.
1. Administrative VA (Operations Generalist)
This is the most common type.
Strengths:
• Inbox management
• Calendar coordination
• CRM updates
• Lead routing
• Appointment confirmations
• Basic reporting
Best for: Agents drowning in admin.
Not ideal for: Advanced marketing execution, graphic design, or automation building.
This person is your “Inbox Zero” and workflow support. They keep the business organized.
2. Transaction Support VA
Focus:
Contract-to-close support (if not using a TC)
Strengths:
• Document preparation
• Timeline tracking
• Compliance checklists
• Vendor coordination
Best for: Agents doing high transaction volume who need operational support but do not want a per-file TC model.
This is detail-heavy work. Accuracy matters more than creativity.
3. Marketing VA
Completely different profile.
Strengths:
• Canva design
• Social media scheduling
• Email campaign setup
• Landing page formatting
• Basic video editing
Best for: Agents who already know their marketing strategy but need execution.
Not ideal for: Strategic marketing decisions. A VA executes. They do not invent brand direction.
Important:
A general admin VA will not automatically be strong at marketing.
If marketing matters, hire for marketing skill specifically.
4. CRM / Systems VA
This is more technical.
Strengths:
• Automation setup
• Workflow building
• Zapier integrations
• Tag logic
• Pipeline structuring
• Database cleanup
Best for: Agents with strong lead flow but messy systems.
This is not entry-level. This requires technical thinking.
5. Inside Sales / Lead Follow-Up VA
This is closer to ISA work.
Strengths:
• Speed-to-lead
• Text follow-up
• Appointment setting
• Database reactivation
Best for: Agents with strong inbound lead sources.
Important: This role is performance-driven. It requires scripting, tracking, and coaching.
Not every admin VA can do sales.
Do not hire one person expecting them to be:
• Inbox manager
• Graphic designer
• CRM engineer
• Video editor
• ISA
• Bookkeeper
That is five jobs.
Most VAs are strong in one lane and competent in another. Very few are elite in all.
What problem am I solving?
Is it organization?
Is it marketing execution?
Is it systems automation?
Is it appointment setting?
If you cannot answer that in one sentence, you are not ready to hire.
There is a difference between:
“Help me stay organized.”
and
“Help me grow through marketing and automation.”
The first is generalist support.
The second requires specialization.
The more specialized the skill, the higher the pay and the more structured the expectations must be.
Start with clarity, not with a resume or a VA service.
Define:
• The top three outcomes you need weekly.
• The lane this role lives in.
• The skill depth required.
Then hire accordingly.
If you cannot fill 30–40 hours/week with specific, repeatable tasks, you do not need a full-time VA yet, you need either a TC, a part-time contractor, or better systems.
Use this test:
List every task you did last week.
Highlight what directly drives appointments, signed clients, and negotiated contracts, that is your money-making lane.
Everything else gets sorted into:
Delegate to TC (per file), or
Delegate to VA (ongoing), or
Delete (it is not moving the needle)
If the VA list does not add up to full-time, stop and restructure before you hire.
You are likely ready if:
• You have consistent income
• You know exactly what to delegate
• You can afford 3–6 months comfortably
• You are willing to manage
• The ROI math works
• You understand the payment structure
You are likely not ready if:
• You are reacting to stress
• You cannot clearly define tasks
• You are hoping it will “fix” your business
• You cannot afford the fixed cost
• You do not want to manage someone
Hiring a VA should feel strategic, not desperate.
Business readiness
What problem am I solving, specifically?
What will I stop doing the day this person starts?
Do I have documented checklists, or is everything “in my head”?
Do I have at least 3–4 months of consistent income to cover this cost without stress?
Am I willing to lead, train, and give feedback weekly?
Management readiness
Have I ever managed an employee before?
Am I comfortable setting expectations, deadlines, and consequences?
Can I commit to a daily huddle (10 minutes) and a weekly one-on-one (30 minutes)?
Can I measure output, not just “effort”?
Role clarity
What are the top 10 outcomes I want each week? (not tasks, outcomes)
Which systems will they own, CRM, calendar, marketing, reporting?
What decisions can they make without me?
What must always come to me?
Time math
How many hours per week am I currently losing to admin work?
If I buy back 10 hours/week, how will I reinvest it into lead gen, follow-up, appointments, negotiations?
If I do not reinvest the time into money-making activities, hiring will not pay off.
Role: Full-Time Real Estate Virtual Assistant
Primary outcomes:
Inbox and calendar stay clean and prioritized daily
Leads are routed, logged, and followed up with speed, no gaps
CRM is accurate and organized, daily updates, zero chaos
Marketing and client care tasks are executed on schedule
Weekly reporting is delivered, KPIs tracked, bottlenecks flagged
Weekly cadence:
Daily 10-minute huddle
End-of-day recap (wins, open loops, tomorrow priorities)
Weekly 30-minute planning meeting, scorecard review
Success metrics:
Lead response time
Appointment confirmation rate
CRM hygiene (notes, stages, tags)
On-time completion of recurring tasks
Reduction in agent admin hours
Fit and work style
Walk me through your last role, what did you own end-to-end?
How do you prefer to receive tasks, written SOP, Loom video, live training?
What does a great workweek look like to you?
How do you handle ambiguity, when instructions are incomplete?
Execution and systems
Tell me about a time you built a checklist or SOP from scratch.
What tools have you used, Google Workspace, Canva, CRM systems, task managers?
How do you prioritize when you have 15 tasks and 3 are urgent?
Communication
How quickly do you respond during working hours?
How do you handle mistakes, what is your process for preventing repeats?
Show me an example of a daily recap you would send.
Real estate exposure (optional, but useful)
Have you supported a real estate agent or team before?
Which parts, lead follow-up, marketing, CRM, listing support, client care?
What parts of real estate ops did you learn the hard way?
Scenario questions (this is where the truth shows up)
You have 10 new leads in the CRM and 3 missed calls, what do you do in the first 15 minutes?
A client is asking for an update, the lender has not responded, what do you do next?
The agent’s calendar is a mess, double booked, missed prep time, how do you fix it and prevent it?
Questions to ask before you hire a TC instead
If what you need is mostly contract-to-close, a TC is the cleaner move. Many agents can outsource listing input and contract-to-close for a per-transaction fee, and scale cost with volume.
Ask yourself:
Do I mostly need deadlines managed, documents tracked, and parties chased?
Is this work tied to closings, not weekly business ops?
Would paying per file protect cash flow better than a salary?
A licensed assistant is a real estate agent who works under you and can perform license-required tasks:
• Show property
• Host open houses
• Write offers
• Attend inspections
• Communicate contract terms
• Negotiate within your guidelines
This is not admin help. This is client-facing leverage.
There are three common setups:
1. True Support Role
Handles showings, open houses, inspections, and contract prep.
Does not generate their own business.
2. Hybrid Role
Supports you and closes some of their own transactions.
Often handles overflow leads.
3. Team Builder Model
Starts as support but grows into a producing agent.
This is no longer an assistant, it’s a team structure.
Be clear which one you are building.
Three common models:
Salary Only
Fixed annual pay. Higher risk if volume drops.
Salary + Per-Closing Bonus
Base pay plus transaction bonuses. Often the healthiest structure.
Commission Split Only
Paid per deal they handle. Lower fixed risk, but this becomes a junior agent model.
This is a bigger financial commitment than a VA.
You are supervising another license.
That means:
• Increased E&O exposure
• Compliance responsibility
• Brand risk
• More management time
You must define:
• What they can negotiate
• What requires your approval
• Lead ownership
• Database ownership
• Exit expectations
Without clarity, conflict is guaranteed.
It makes sense when:
• You are consistently overwhelmed with showings
• You are losing opportunities because you cannot be everywhere
• Your production is stable
• You are ready to supervise and coach
It does not make sense if:
• Your income is inconsistent
• You are reacting to stress
• You do not want to manage someone
A VA buys back admin time.
A licensed assistant adds client-facing leverage.
One is operational support.
The other is the first step toward building a team.
Be sure you want a team before you hire one.
This decision must be driven by ROI, not emotion.
Do not hire a licensed assistant to “help” a struggling agent, create opportunity for a friend, or solve someone else’s income problem. Payroll is not charity. It is a business investment.
A licensed assistant should increase your capacity and your revenue. If the math does not clearly show how this role produces measurable return, you are taking on risk without leverage.
Flight attendants tell us "Put your own oxygen mask on first before you help someone else."
Your production must be stable. Your cash flow must be predictable. Your pipeline must be consistent. Only then does it make sense to add payroll.
If your business is not already strong, adding overhead will amplify weakness, not fix it.
You should have:
• At least 12 months of consistent production
• No reliance on one or two large closings
• Predictable monthly pipeline
If your income swings wildly month to month, you are not ready for fixed payroll.
A licensed assistant should cost no more than 20–30% of your net income.
Example:
If you net $250,000 annually,
A $60,000 assistant is 24%. Reasonable.
If you net $120,000 annually,
A $60,000 assistant is 50%. Dangerous.
If payroll consumes half your income, one slow quarter will hurt.
Ask:
How many additional closings must this person help me produce to justify their cost?
Example:
Assistant cost = $70,000
Average net per closing = $10,000
You need 7 additional closings per year to break even.
That is less than 1 extra closing per month.
Now ask honestly:
Can this person realistically help me add 1 closing per month?
If not, it’s a lifestyle hire, not a growth hire.
Before hiring, you should have:
3–6 months of payroll saved.
If volume drops temporarily, you should not panic.
If you need next month’s closing to pay your assistant, you are not ready.
A licensed assistant makes sense when:
• You are turning down showings
• You cannot attend all inspections
• You are double-booked
• You are losing opportunities due to availability
If you still have idle time in your schedule, hiring will not fix revenue.
In most markets, a licensed assistant starts making sense when an agent is consistently closing 25–35 transactions per year or netting $250K+.
Below that, it is often premature unless the model is split-based instead of salary-based.
You can afford a licensed assistant when:
• Your production is stable
• The assistant’s cost is less than 30% of your net
• The math shows clear break-even upside
• You have cash reserves
• You are capacity constrained
If you are hiring because you are tired, that is not a financial reason.
If you are hiring because your volume is capped by your time, that is.
Here’s what a business owner would do instead.
Payroll is fixed cost.
If revenue is inconsistent, fixed cost creates risk.
Before hiring anyone, the business should have:
• Predictable monthly revenue
• Clear gross vs net tracking
• A defined personal income number
• Healthy profit margin
If you cannot show your P&L and explain your margins, you are not ready for payroll.
A business owner optimizes before hiring.
Ask:
• Are my CRM automations built correctly?
• Are my follow-up sequences automated?
• Are my listing and buyer processes templated?
• Do I batch my admin work?
If the machine is inefficient, adding a person increases inefficiency.
Fix the machine first.
Smart operators move from:
DIY → Per-transaction help → Part-time → Full-time payroll.
Examples:
• Transaction coordinator per file
• Showing service
• Contract prep assistance
• Listing input outsourcing
Variable cost scales with revenue.
Salary does not.
If you feel overwhelmed but are not consistently closing 25–35 transactions per year, the issue is usually:
• Conversion
• Lead flow
• Discipline
• Time blocking
Solve revenue consistency first.
A business owner earns the right to add payroll through stable output.
No serious business hires payroll without reserves.
Minimum standard:
3–6 months of payroll sitting in cash.
If one slow quarter would cause panic, you are not ready.
Operators use metrics, not emotion.
Examples:
• When I hit $250K net income
• When I average 3 closings per month for 6 months
• When I cap my brokerage consistently
• When my schedule is at capacity weekly
Until then, focus on production.
If you are not financially ready, the real question is:
Do you need help, or do you need structure?
Most agents need:
• Better time discipline
• Better systems
• Better follow-up
• Better pricing conversations
• More listings
Not payroll.
Add payroll when:
• Revenue is stable
• Margin is healthy
• Systems are defined
• Capacity is capped
• Cash reserves exist
Do not add payroll to solve stress.
Add payroll to scale profit.
That’s the difference between operating like an agent and operating like a business.